by Gabrielle Hines
As a child, not a day went by without my parents nagging at me about something. Of course, their vocabulary was not so pessimistic—they preferred to call it “teaching” me. Of all of the lessons taught, I find only a few are still useful: never talk to Dad if he’s watching a game, put a piece of bread in with a batch of cookies to ensure moisture, floss, remember the golden rule. The nagging worked, and for the most part, I still live by these lessons today—especially during football season. The one thing learned that still seems to be the most important is to always be polite and courteous.
Recently, I can’t help but wonder whether others were taught this. It is rare for me to sneeze and receive a simple, “Bless you!” in return. I can’t seem to catch a break from the person only millimeters in front of me who refuses to leave the door open after walking through. By contrast, if I do something that comes completely natural to me and open the door for another, I’m lucky to receive a half-nod in response. It is a witnessed miracle if the person in the lane next to me lets me over without a frustrated finger flying in the air.
Did I miss the memo that said rude is the new nice? Apparently so, for if I go into a local convenience or grocery store and answer to the clerk, “Yes, ma’am” or “No, ma’am,” it’s obvious to everyone but me that I’m somehow being offensive. The response is usually something along the lines of an irritated grumble or an unappreciative “I’m not that old.”
I don’t know whether others are apathetic or our fast food, drive-thru wedding chapel, online shopping world just doesn’t have enough time for that nuisance called courtesy.
This fast paced world would be a better place if we all just remembered what we learned in kindergarten. Obviously, our busy days can no longer schedule 30 minutes out for nap-time, and cootie shots no longer heal broken hearts. But saying please and thank you will always earn you a cookie.










May 9, 2008
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